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<description>John S. Eory is a Shareholder and member of Stark &amp; Stark&apos;s Divorce and Family Law group. He limits his practice to divorce, custody, domestic violence and other family law matters. 

Mr. Eory is a member of the New Jersey Supreme Court District VII Ethics Committee; the 2009 recipient of the Mercer County Bar Association&apos;s Professional Lawyer of the Year award and is perennially voted a &apos;New Jersey Super Lawyer&apos; by his peers. Mr. Eory is also a lecturer for various bar associations and has appeared as a television and radio panelist on divorce and custody topics.</description>
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<title>Child Related Tax Benefits for Divorced Parents</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>Tax season has arrived and with it questions as to tax treatment of children of divorcing or divorced parents. For purposes of this article let's deal with the most basic, the &quot;dependency exemption&quot;. According to the IRS, the parent who has custody of his or her child for more than one-half the year can claim the child provided that he or she&nbsp; has provided more than half of the child's support for the year in question.<br />
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In&nbsp; some cases, however, the non-custodial parent can claim the child but in order to be able to do so four requirements must be met: </p>
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    <li>First, the parents mus t be divorced or legally separated under a written agreement or lived apart continuously for the last six months of the year;</li>
    <li>Second, the child has received more than half his or her support from the non-custodial parent for the year;</li>
    <li>Third,&nbsp; the child has been in the custody of either or both parents for the greater part of the year; and</li>
    <li>Fourth, the custodial parent releases the claim to the dependency exemption to the non-custodial parent in writing (IRS Form 8332) which must be attached to the non-custodial parent's tax return.</li>
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<p>In many divorce cases, a non-custodial parent's right to claim the exemption is established by court order or written Marital Settlement Agreement. In divorce negotiations, this right may be a bargaining chip since the exemption is worth more to the higher income parent. Assuming the non-custodial parent receives the exemption, the next question is whether it should be annually or perennially.&nbsp; It is not advisable for the custodial parent to waive the exemption for more than one year at a time and agreeing to do so each year should be tied to a provision in the Agreement or Order requiring the non-custodial parent to be current in child support for the year in question.<br />
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Since no two cases are alike, a parent going through divorce should always consult with knowledgeable matrimonial counsel to determine what is in their best interests in terms of settlement or trial.</p>]]></description>
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<pubDate>Tue, 16 Feb 2010 09:03:00 -0500</pubDate>
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<title>Non -Domestic Violence?</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>In a case of first impression in New Jersey, an appeals court affirmed a trial court's ruling that a paid escort qualifies as a &quot;date&rdquo;, and thus is a victim under the New Jersey Prevention of Domestic Violence Act. In J.S. v. J.F., the trial judge determined that the parties had entered into a &quot;dating relationship&quot; even though most of their &quot;dates&quot; were at the club where J.S. danced. As for the exchange of money involved, J.S. testified that J.F. was simply trying&nbsp; to help her out financially, as opposed to rendering payment for professional services, an argument unsuccessfully advanced by J.F.'s counsel.<br />
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<p>By way of background, J.S. sought protection under the Domestic Violence Act when she began &quot;seeing another man&quot; to which J.F. responded by sending her harassing and threatening text messages. The case serves as fair warning that the commonly-held definition of &quot;dating&quot; is being expanded to satisfy the presumed legislative intent of the Act. As we lawyers like to say, &quot;please be guided accordingly&quot;. As others might put it, &quot;buyer beware&quot;.</p>]]></description>
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<pubDate>Wed, 16 Dec 2009 08:09:59 -0500</pubDate>
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<title>Canine Custody in New Jersey Divorce Proceedings</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>In a decision of fist impression a New Jersey court has awarded shared possession of a six year old pedigree pug named Dexter to a former couple who bought the dog for $1,500 while were engaged and living together.<br />
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<p>In Houseman v. Dare, the court gave each party five weeks of time with Dexter and alternating holidays, with the party having physical custody responsible for Dexter's veterinary bills including cremation expenses in the event of his death. The court hoped that in such unfortunate circumstances the responsible party would agree to share his ashes. <br />
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<p>The decision follows up an New Jersey appeals court ruling that pets, unlike furniture, household goods and other types of personal property, have a subjective value that transcends monetary factors. At the same time, it should be noted that the court declined to apply a &quot;best interests of the pet&quot; standard as would apply to child custody cases<br />
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<p>I have at times&nbsp; handled so-called &quot;pet custody&quot; as part of a divorce, although the court in Houseman declined to use the word &quot;custody&quot;, opting instead for &quot;possession&quot;.&nbsp; Regardless of the language, there is no doubt that pets are often considered&nbsp; &quot;members of the family&quot; instead of mere objects and that courts are starting to acknowledge their unique and special status.</p>]]></description>
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<pubDate>Fri, 02 Oct 2009 08:08:36 -0500</pubDate>
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<title>Who&apos;s staying married?</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>The U.S. Census Bureau has released data regarding the incidence of divorce on a state-by state basis. Interestingly, and contrary to some segments of public opinion, New Jersey and Pennsylvania rank second and third, behind only Hawaii, for the lowest percentage of divorces.<br />
This is all the more interesting since New Jersey is the most heavily populated state by square mile and not a politically conservative &quot;red state&quot;.&nbsp; In fact, some&nbsp; &quot;red states&quot; have very high divorce rates, so go figure.<br />
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<p>What's the reason?&nbsp; One theory is that more folks are opting to live together rather than get married, thus reducing the number or divorce filings.&nbsp; One the other hand, some opine that the availability of &quot; no fault&quot;divorce is a major contributor to the breakdown of marriage and&nbsp; increase in divorce rates. Others say that the cost of divorce is too expensive yet increasing numbers of persons are electing mediation or arbitration as alternatives to divorce litigation and even the cost of litigation can be properly managed if a divorce attorney has an associate to assume appropriate responsibilities at a lesser billing rate during the process.</p>
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Putting the cold data aside, my experience is that unhappy spouses either need to find their way to a happier place through counseling (assuming both participate in good faith)&nbsp; or acknowledge that their relationship is unworkable&nbsp; and harmful to their children.&nbsp; In the latter case, a person's retention of experienced divorce counsel is essential to maximize a fair and cost-effective outcome depending on the complexity of issues and willingness of the other party to be part of the solution.</p>]]></description>
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<pubDate>Tue, 29 Sep 2009 08:00:11 -0500</pubDate>
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<title>Divorce and Intellectual Property</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>The proper treatment of intellectual property (IP) in divorce cases requires an understanding of the different types of IP, valuation of the IP and ultimately equitable distribution of the IP as a marital asset.<br />
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There are four types of IP: </p>
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    <li><u><strong>A Trademark</strong></u> is a name, word, phrase, logo, symbol, design, or image used to identify a product or service.&nbsp; Also known as a &ldquo;mark&rdquo;, trademarks are denoted with the symbol &ldquo;&trade;&rdquo;, although trademarks registered with the United States Patent Trademark Office are followed by the symbol &reg;.</li>
    <li><u><strong>A Copyright</strong></u> protects the expression of ideas captured in tangible form, such as drawings, sheet music, photographs, videotapes, computer files/software, books or paintings.&nbsp; .&nbsp; Copyright laws provide the creator with exclusive rights to publish and distribute his or her works for a certain time period after which the work belongs to the public.&nbsp; Copyright owners may also authorize others to reproduce their work or derivative works based on the original work</li>
    <li><u><strong>A Patent</strong></u> protects a new or useful invention, such as a process or machine, as well as improvements thereto.&nbsp; An inventor may assign his or her rights to the patent to another party.&nbsp; Patent law exists for the purpose of excluding others from making, using or selling an invention for the term of the patent which is usually twenty years.</li>
    <li><u><strong>A Trade Secret</strong></u> protects&nbsp; information which provides an economic benefit to the owner because it is not known to the public.&nbsp; Unlike other types of IP, the protection of confidential information of a trade secret does not expire as long as the secret is never disclosed.</li>
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In a divorce, the first question is whether the IP is subject to equitable distribution.&nbsp; Generally speaking, all assets acquired by the parties or either of them during the marriage (defined as from the marriage date to the date a divorce complaint&nbsp; is filed) are marital. Thus, premarital assets, inherited assets or assets gifted from a third party ( and not subsequently &ldquo;co-mingled&rdquo;) will not be divided; however,&nbsp; any increase in value of exempt assets which are the direct result of effort by one or both marital partners will be subject to equitable distribution.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </p>
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Thus, in cases involving IP, appropriate areas of inquiry are whether marital funds were expended to market the IP or to defend the owners rights to the IP during the marriage.&nbsp; If marital funds were utilized, the non-owner spouse can assert that the otherwise exempt IP is subject to equitable distribution. <br />
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The valuation of IP as a marital asset is complicated by the fact that in many instances such value is based upon the IP&rsquo;s ability to generate future income.&nbsp; To the extent that such income will also be a factor in an alimony or child support calculus, the conundrum of a &ldquo;double dip&rdquo; exists.&nbsp; In other words, having valued the IP as a marital asset based upon a future income stream and carried out equitable distribution based on that value, a court may nonetheless take a second look a the future IP income for alimony or child support.&nbsp; New Jersey courts have determined that such an approach does not constitute a &ldquo;double dip&rdquo;, a fact which attorneys, forensic accountants and owners of an IP must recognize from the outset.&nbsp; <br />
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Although there is no &ldquo;bright line&rdquo; ruling in New Jersey with respect to equitable distribution of intellectual property, guidance can be gleaned from decisions in other states such as a Kansas court&rsquo;s decision that a disproportionate equitable distribution in favor of a patent holder was equitable since he would be required to expend post-marital efforts to ensure the continued income stream from the patents. <br />
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In summary, attorneys dealing with IP in divorce cases must be aware of the issues and pitfalls involved by exploring out-of-state cases and New Jersey cases dealing with different but analogous types of marital assets such as stock options and pension plans.</p>]]></description>
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<pubDate>Tue, 01 Sep 2009 08:17:44 -0500</pubDate>
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<title>Financial Planning After Your Divorce</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.stark-stark.com/attorney-lawyer-1404274.html"><em>Legal Briefs On Divorce</em></a> is a video podcast series providing viewers with a discussion on timely news and insight on current trends impacting divorce. This installment of Legal Briefs On Divorce is an interview with <a href="http://www.stark-stark.com/attorney-lawyer-1010555.html">John S. Eory</a>, Shareholder in Stark &amp; Stark's <a href="http://www.stark-stark.com/attorney-lawyer-1011057.html">Divorce</a> Group, and Sam Sacks, a Financial Advisor and First Vice President of Investments for Wells Fargo Advisors.<br />
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Mr. Eory and Mr. Sacks discuss the common questions many people face after a divorce in relation to their financial assets, such as where to invest, how do I find an advisor who suits my needs, and how to best invest my assets in today's economy?</p>
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<title>Forensic Computer Investigations For Your Divorce</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.stark-stark.com/attorney-lawyer-1404274.html"><em>Legal Briefs On Divorce</em></a> is a video podcast series providing viewers with a discussion on timely news and insight on current trends impacting divorce. This installment of Legal Briefs On Divorce is an interview with <a href="http://www.stark-stark.com/attorney-lawyer-1010555.html">John S. Eory</a>, Shareholder in Stark &amp; Stark's <a href="http://www.stark-stark.com/attorney-lawyer-1011057.html">Divorce</a> Group, and Rob Kleeger, Managing Director of the <a href="http://www.intell-group.com/">Intelligence Group</a>.</p>
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<p>Mr. Kleeger conducts digital forensic investigations for divorcing parties in order to gather electronically stored information and put it in a format useful to a divorce case. Mr. Eory and Mr. Kleeger discuss the reasons for digital forensic investigations and what type of information can be gathered for a divorce case.</p>
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<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jul 2009 08:06:55 -0500</pubDate>
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<title>Marital Settlement Agreement Bars Request for Financial Relief</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>In a just-decided case (<em>Bello-Englesbe v. Englesbe</em>, decided June 5, 2009), a New Jersey appeals court rejected a father's request to reduce child support based on terms of his Marital Settlement Agreement (MSA). The two judge panel ruled that the MSA failed to establish an income baseline from which an application for relief from a support obligation could be measured.<br />
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The significance of this ruling is that courts will not presuppose starting points if the divorcing parties do not establish them in their MSA. Attorneys and clients should ensure that such details are addressed and quantified if necessary, to includes parenting schedules, income and earning capacity assumptions, pension division formulas, life insurance provisions, college contribution formulas and so forth.<br />
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As this case demonstrates, it pays to &quot;get it right&quot; the first time to avoid future problems occasioned by insufficient explanation or lack of attention to detail.</p>]]></description>
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<pubDate>Wed, 10 Jun 2009 08:25:49 -0500</pubDate>
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<title>The Role of Forensic Financial Investigations in a Divorce</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.stark-stark.com/attorney-lawyer-1404274.html"><em>Legal Briefs On Divorce</em></a> is a video podcast series providing viewers with a discussion on timely news and insight on current trends impacting divorce. This installment of Legal Briefs On Divorce is an interview with <a href="http://www.stark-stark.com/attorney-lawyer-1010555.html">John S. Eory</a>, Shareholder in Stark &amp; Stark's <a href="http://www.stark-stark.com/attorney-lawyer-1011057.html">Divorce</a> Group, and Tom Hoberman, CPA with the accounting firm of <a href="http://www.withum.com/">WithumSmith + Brown</a>.</p>
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<p>Mr. Eory and Mr. Hoberman discuss the need for forensic financial investigations in your divorce, and Mr. Hoberman discusses his experience in conducting investigations in order to uncover fraud, embezzlement schemes, damages and assess internal control weaknesses.</p>
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<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jun 2009 08:00:03 -0500</pubDate>
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<title>Real Estate Appraisal for Your Divorce</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.stark-stark.com/attorney-lawyer-1404274.html"><em>Legal Briefs On Divorce</em></a> is a video podcast series providing viewers with a discussion on timely news and insight on current trends impacting divorce. This installment of <em>Legal Briefs On Divorce</em> is an interview with <a href="http://www.stark-stark.com/attorney-lawyer-1010555.html">John S. Eory</a>, Shareholder in Stark &amp; Stark's <a href="http://www.stark-stark.com/attorney-lawyer-1011057.html">Divorce</a> Group, and <a href="http://www.njlawblog.com/uploads/file/Carabelli_ indd.pdf">Richard Carabelli, Jr.</a>, MAI of Martin Appraisal Associates, Inc. Mr. Eory and Mr. Carabelli discuss the importance of a real estate appraisal in the divorces process.</p>
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<title>Same Sex Marriage Legislation Likely in New Jersey</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>Virtually all opinion polls confirm that same sex marriage legislation is the future. To those who said , &quot;leave it to the people, not judges&quot; the&nbsp; outcome will be passage of such laws in New Jersey and elsewhere within the foreseeable future. </p>
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Acknowledging this as a likely outcome, some legal scholars are already raising questions as to the potential for conflict between such laws and religious liberty. For example, to what extent, if any, should the law protect the rights of &quot;conscientious objectors&quot; to refuse service to married same sex couples in religious-based social service agencies? How far may government&nbsp; go in requiring religious institutions to accommodate same sex marriage? It is interesting that according to one 2008 survey, when asked if they would favor same sex couples to marry if the law &quot;guaranteed that no church or congregation would be required to perform such marriages&quot;, support for same sex marriage jumped from 29% to 43%.</p>
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As one commentator put it: &quot;Gay marriage is here to stay. And religious objections to gay marriage are not likely to evaporate anytime soon. Our best option-the one that serves the common good-is to work together to find the right balance between equality and religious freedom, two of our nations most cherished ideals.&quot;</p>
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Since it is predicted that New Jersey will&nbsp; have same sex marriage within a year, such issues are the true future of gay marriage.</p>]]></description>
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<pubDate>Tue, 21 Apr 2009 08:06:26 -0500</pubDate>
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<title>How Divorces Impact Mortgages</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.stark-stark.com/attorney-lawyer-1404274.html"><em>Legal Briefs On Divorce</em></a> is a video podcast series providing viewers with a discussion on timely news and insight on current trends impacting divorce. This installment of <em>Legal Briefs On Divorce</em> is an interview with <a href="http://www.stark-stark.com/attorney-lawyer-1010555.html">John S. Eory</a>, Shareholder in Stark &amp; Stark's <a href="http://www.stark-stark.com/attorney-lawyer-1011057.html">Divorce</a> Group, and Len Rossine, Divorce Lending Specialist with Bank of America.</p>
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<p>Mr. Eory and Mr. Rossine discuss the obstacles people will often face when going through a divorce in relation to their mortgage such as, &ldquo;Can I afford to keep my home after my divorce?&rdquo; or &ldquo;What is the best way to split the equity in my home during my divorce?&rdquo; Mr. Eory and Mr. Rossine offer several possible solutions to these questions and provide tips on how to deal with your financial situation early on in your divorce case.</p>
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<a href="http://vimeo.com/3268597">Legal Briefs On Divorce With John Eory &amp; Len Rossine</a> from <a href="http://vimeo.com/user1319205">Stark &amp; Stark</a> on <a href="http://vimeo.com">Vimeo</a>.</p>]]></description>
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<pubDate>Wed, 01 Apr 2009 13:46:21 -0500</pubDate>
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<title>Who Gets the Pet?</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>In a case of first impression, a New Jersey appeals court has ordered that the legal doctrine of &quot;specific performance&quot;&nbsp; applies to ownership of an estranged couple's pet dog and that payment of money damages cannot compensate for the &quot;special subjective benefits&quot;&nbsp; of pet ownership.</p>
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In Houseman v. Dare, decided and approved for publication on March 10, 2009, the court concluded that &quot;There is no reason for a court of equity to be more wary in resolving competing claims for possession of a pet on one party's sincere affection for and attachment to it than in resolving competing claims based on one party's sincere attachment for an inanimate object...&quot;.</p>
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The case included briefs from Animal Legal Defense Fund and Lawyers in Defense of Animals which both urged the court to adopt a rule that requires consideration of the best interests of the dog. In many households, a dog, cat or other pet is&nbsp; a &quot;member of the family&quot; with whom lasting attachments are made by adults and children. In such circumstances, Houseman points the way to resolve competing claims and&nbsp; implicitly elevates the legal status of &quot;man's best friend&quot; and his counterparts.</p>]]></description>
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<pubDate>Tue, 17 Mar 2009 08:05:01 -0500</pubDate>
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<title>Limited Duration Alimony</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>On January 27, 2009, the New Jersey Appellate Division issued an Opinion in the case of Valente v. Valente which shed light on whether alimony should be permanent or of limited duration in an &quot;intermediate length marriage&quot; of 11+ years.&nbsp; The Court concluded that given the duration of the marriage, the ages of the parties (42) and other factors prescribed by the statute, an award of permanent alimony was not warranted. </p>
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<p>The case is important to divorcing parties because distinguishing between permanent and limited duration alimony is often unclear in mid-length marriages. The ruling provides guidance with respect to a marriage in excess of ten years being considered of &quot;intermediate length&quot;, as opposed to what some attorneys and judges have considered to be of sufficient length to warrant permanent alimony. The legal standards are further complicated by the alimony statute which requires judges to specifically find why permanent alimony is not appropriate before awarding another available type, such as rehabilitative or limited duration alimony.</p>
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It is important for divorcing parties to be knowledgeable through their attorneys regarding such issues before making important decisions which will impact their economic futures.</p>]]></description>
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<pubDate>Fri, 06 Feb 2009 08:00:25 -0500</pubDate>
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<title>The Legal Impacts of Governor McGreevy&apos;s Divorce</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>Over the past months, much has been written about the tabloid divorce of former New Jersey governor James McGreevy and Dana Matos McGreevy. While the salacious details made headlines, the legal lessons embedded in the court's 44 page Opinion issued on August 8, 2008 are worth noting for persons contemplating or going through a divorce.</p>
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<p><u><strong>Lesson One: Fault Doesn't Matter </strong></u><br />
The inverse relationship between marital fault and results obtained was dramatically demonstrated as Judge Cassidy found that Ms. Matos McGreevy had advanced unreasonable and ultimately unsupportable arguments based on her husband's extramarital same sex affair. At one point, the Judge referred to Ms. Matos McGreevy's &quot;irresistible urge for retribution&quot; having&nbsp; &quot;no residual economic consequences&quot;. Harsher words from a family court judge are few and far between. <br />
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<p><u><strong>Lesson Two: Time is Money </strong></u><br />
It is enlightening how Judge Cassidy dealt with Ms. Matos McGreevy's alimony claim.&nbsp; Despite concluding that Mr. McGreevy had an imputed earning capacity of $175,000 per year (an amount far greater than he alleged and a good deal less than Ms.Matos Greevy's expert witness opined), no alimony was awarded. Why? Basically because the court considered it short term marriage (4 &frac12; years).<br />
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<p><u><strong>Lesson Three :&nbsp; Gamble With Your Own&nbsp; Money</strong></u><br />
Ms. Matos McGreevy incurred over $500,000 in legal fees, some of which were to advance two unsuccessful arguments.&nbsp; First, she hoped the court would agree that she was entitled to maintain a lifestyle in the manner to which she'd become accustomed as first lady of New Jersey. Second, she tried to prove that Mr. McGreevy possessed &quot;celebrity goodwill&quot; which could be quantified; that is, converted into money of which would receive a portion. Both claims were rejected by the court.</p>
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<p>Why? Judge Cassidy sensibly found that a public servant's lifestyle only exists during the period of public service and is not transferrable to private life. She also correctly determined that Mr. McGreevy had no &quot;celebrity goodwill&quot; since he had no historical earnings attributable to celebrity status, as did, for example, the comedian Joe Piscopo, whose divorce case set the precedent for such relief in New Jersey. &nbsp;</p>
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Since you (and I) are probably not in high public office and don't have celebrity goodwill to worry about, what's the point? Simply that strained legal claims come at a price. Ms. Matos&nbsp; McGreevy was aware of her chances for success and took them at considerable financial cost. Essentially, she gambled and lost, as Judge Cassidy awarded no legal fees to either party.</p>
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Know your rights and responsibilities with regard to divorce. Discuss them with your lawyer. No less, know your exposure in terms of risk, reward and cost. Ask your lawyer. If she or adequately explains them, trust their professional opinion and make your decisions accordingly.&nbsp; If he or she can't tell you, ask yourself why not, get another opinion and perhaps another lawyer depending on the stakes involved.</p>]]></description>
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<pubDate>Fri, 22 Aug 2008 08:03:23 -0500</pubDate>
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<title>New Jersey Supreme Court Rules Cohabitation Not Indispensable to &quot;Palimony&quot; Claim</title>
<description><![CDATA[In a significant opinion issued on June 17, the New Jersey Supreme Court&nbsp; ruled 6-1 that cohabitation is not an absolute requirement for a successful &quot;palimony&quot; claim but is only one of a number of factors a court should consider.<br />
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Th ruling is important because it breaks tradition with precedent set&nbsp; by nearly every other state court in that a plaintiff need only prove a &quot;marital type relationship&quot; rather than show that the couple lived together for some period of time.<br />
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&quot;Palimony&quot; is a term of art for equitable recovery based on a long-term spousal type relationship between two unmarried persons. In most successful palimony claims cohabitation will exist but it is no longer an indispensable element. Instead, the &quot;entirety of the relationship&quot; must now be considered. Thus, persons who have a &quot;marital type relationship&quot; but do not live together for such reasons as employment, educational or military opportunities would qualify under the new&nbsp; standard.&nbsp; New Jersey is the first state to rule that cohabitation is not a requirement for palimony.<br />
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Although every case is determined on its own facts, the ruling eliminates one long-standing factual requirement and opens the door to new and varied situations which would previously had no legal basis.<br />
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It is important that a person involved in such a situation obtain skilled legal advice in determining how to proceed.]]></description>
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<pubDate>Fri, 11 Jul 2008 08:08:09 -0500</pubDate>
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<title>Parenting Coordinator? Custody Mediator? Who&apos;s On First?</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>In a case decided on June 17, 2008, a New Jersey appeals court distinguished the roles of a Custody Mediators from Parenting Coordinators in divorce cases. <br />
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Essentially, a Custody Mediator, whether court-appointed or privately chosen, is barred from making any recommendations to the court concerning custody or parenting time. A Parenting Coordinator, on the&nbsp; other hand, whether appointed or chosen, may do so, although the court opined that the &quot;preferable practice&quot; would be to consult with the parents and their attorneys beforehand.</p>
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This case demonstrates the need for precise definitions in order to avoid unexpected or unpleasant results. If in doubt, consult an attorney before deciding how to proceed.</p>]]></description>
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<pubDate>Wed, 02 Jul 2008 08:24:40 -0500</pubDate>
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<title>What Constitutes &quot;Changed Circumstances&quot; to Reduce Alimony?</title>
<description><![CDATA[On June 19, 2008 a New Jersey appeals court determined that a&nbsp; police chief's retirement, even if involuntary as claimed, was not sufficient to modify his alimony obligation. The Court found that the trial judge had failed to consider numerous other factors which had&nbsp; bearing on whether alimony should be reduced or terminated, as defined by statute and case law. <br />
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Thus, it is important for persons on the verge of retirement and paying alimony, or persons to whom alimony is being paid in such circumstances, obtain sound legal advice and plan accordingly.<br />]]></description>
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<pubDate>Mon, 30 Jun 2008 08:06:51 -0500</pubDate>
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<title>Binding Arbitration of Child-Related Issues Struck Down</title>
<description><![CDATA[During the past decade divorce lawyers have witnessed the steady growth of   &quot;Alternate Dispute Resolution&quot;  (ADR) techniques such as mediation and binding arbitration of matrimonial issues. While ADR may be a viable option to a judicial decision, a recent case demonstrates the limits of binding arbitration in the divorce context.<br />
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On June 16 a New Jersey appeals court ruled that a divorcing couple could not, as a matter of law, bargain away a court's obligation to review the best interests of their children by  agreeing to be bound by an arbitrator's decision respecting child support and, by implication, custody or parenting time.<br />
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The key word is  &quot;binding&quot;. In the above case, the parties had initially agreed that the arbitrator's decision concerning child support would be final and not subject to judicial review or appeal. The appellate court disagreed, stating that courts have a &quot;non-delegable, special supervisory function&quot; when it comes to children which cannot be bargained away and voided the parties' agreement.<br />
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The point is that persons seeking to resolve their matrimonial differences through ADR need to be aware of what can and cannot be accomplished by seeking advice from skilled and independent attorneys before and during the process.<br />]]></description>
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<pubDate>Mon, 23 Jun 2008 10:50:04 -0500</pubDate>
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<title>Cohabitation By An Alimony Recipient</title>
<description><![CDATA[In the world of post-divorce litigation, the issue of cohabitation by an alimony recipient continues to be an area of contention. <br />
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On the one hand, since there is no longer a duty of marital fidelity,  should a former spouse who is receiving alimony be barred from living with whoever he or she chooses, especially since the paying spouse is free to do so? <br />
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On the other hand, should a person paying alimony be compelled to continue doing so when his or her former spouse is cohabiting instead of remarrying which would terminate alimony?  <br />
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New Jersey courts have wrestled with these issues for years and, while every case is (as we lawyers say) fact-specific, there are legal guideposts to help navigate the terrain.<br />
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First, the mere fact of cohabitation, even when admitted-to or  demonstrated to a court, is insufficient to terminate or even reduce alimony. What occurs in such cases is that the burden shifts to the person receiving alimony to prove why he or she is still entitled to payment.<br />
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In a case just decided on June 3, 2008, a three judge New Jersey appeals court upheld the lower court's decision that alimony should continue despite the recipient's acknowledged cohabitation and an economic inter-relationship with her boyfriend. <br />
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This case does not mean that alimony cannot be reduced or terminated if cohabitation exists. It does, however, highlight the strong need for someone seeking relief to consult with experienced legal counsel in order to determine how to proceed.]]></description>
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<pubDate>Tue, 10 Jun 2008 08:02:43 -0500</pubDate>
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