Summertime Family Law Issues

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In this installment of Legal Lines, Stark & Stark Divorce attorney, David Beaver, addresses various issues that commonly arise between divorced individuals during the summer months.  These tips will hopefully help keep the potential tension level between parties lower than the rising summer temperatures. Some of the most common problems include:

  • Work Related Child Care Expenses
  • Summer Camp Enrollment and Expense Allocation
  • Vacation Parenting Time Requests
  • Child Support Reductions During Summer Months

If you have any additional questions, feel free to contact the Stark & Stark Divorce Group at 1-877-678-Divorce.

Alternatives to Divorce Litigation: Mediation, Arbitration, Collaborative Divorce and Four-Way Conferences

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Divorce is difficult; emotionally, physically and financially.   The issues in divorce lend themselves to intense feelings, which even on a good day, can interfere with the process.  Yet, many divorce cases can be resolved in a fair and equitable manner without the need to battle it out to the bitter end through the court system. 
   

Currently, our family court system is over-burdened.  There are not enough judges to hear the thousands of new cases that are filed in our State every year.  Therefore, in order to move your case along, you may wish to consider alternatives to the litigation process, or avenues you can access to supplement the process, thereby making the system work better for you.
   

Mediation.  Mediation is a process in which two parties (with or without lawyers) meet with a third party, the facilitator or mediator, to help resolve disputes.  This meeting takes place in an informal setting, where those involved frame the issues and discuss alternatives for settlement, all with the help of the mediator.  The issues are discussed, one by one, until an agreement is reached.  The mediator does not determine the outcome; the parties do.  When all issues are resolved, the mediator drafts a Memorandum of Understanding which the parties take to their attorneys for review.  The intent of the process is to reach agreements that will be placed into a formal Interspousal Agreement signed by both parties.   
   

Arbitration.   Different from mediation, arbitration is similar to a trial; however, it is a less formal process that takes place before an arbitrator, not a judge, in a conference room as opposed to a courtroom.  Many times the arbitrator chosen by the parties is a retired judge or attorney who has expertise in the area of family law.  The arbitrator listens to the testimony of each party and their witnesses through the questioning of the attorneys.  Documentation is also presented  to bolster each party’s position.  Once each side has presented their case, the arbitrator makes a decision.  While similar to a trial, the key differences are: (1) the process is less formal and more flexible; (2) the parties choose the arbitrator, whereas you cannot choose your judge; (3) the parties, along with the arbitrator and attorneys set the schedule, so that you’re not beholden to the limited time schedule of the court; and (4) a decision will be made promptly.   
   

Collaborative Divorce.   This is a fairly new approach to divorce, wherein, the parties and their attorneys sign a Participation Agreement committing to resolve all divorce issues through negotiation and not litigation.  The attorneys assist their clients in resolving conflicts through cooperative techniques rather than adversarial strategies.  This is accomplished through a series of conferences in which the parties work together toward a negotiated settlement.  In the event the process is not successful, the attorneys must withdraw from the representation of their respective clients, and the parties must hire new counsel before proceeding with litigation.

 

Four-Way Conferences.  While the above methods are less formal than trial, an even more informal method for resolving differences is the four way conference.  This generally takes place during the litigation process, but before you are too deeply into case.  The parties and their
attorneys meet to discuss the outstanding issues in the case with a view towards solving, or at least narrowing, the issues before going to court.   

 

All issues in a divorce case can be resolved by using any of the above methods; however, both parties must agree to engage in any one of these forms of alternate dispute resolution before proceeding in this manner.

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Common Misconceptions of Divorce Law (Part Two)

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In this installment of Legal Lines, Stark & Stark Divorce attorneys, Megan Smith and Joseph Visco, continue the discussion regarding some common misconceptions of divorce litigation. Joseph Visco primarily focuses his family law practice in Pennsylvania, and notes various distinctions between New Jersey and Pennsylvania family law. These differences are discussed by the panelists, and include:

  • Emancipation Differences In New Jersey And Pennsylvania
  • College Contribution Obligation Of Divorced Parents
  • Underemployment and Imputed Income
  • Payment of Child Support Arrearages
  • Setting Up A Child Support Probation Account

If you have any additional questions, feel free to contact the Stark & Stark Divorce Group at 1-877-678-Divorce.
 

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Governor Corzine Prohibits Enforcement of Palimony Agreements Unless in Writing

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On his last night as Governor of the State of New Jersey, Governor Corzine has supposedly signed into law a bill prohibiting the enforcement of "palimony" agreements unless such agreements are in writing (S-2091/ACS for A4296, 3833 [Scutari, Cardinale, Stender,Carroll/Stender, Carroll]).  The passage of this bill has an important impact on non-dissolution family law, where persons in long-term committed relationships sans "marriage" had the potential to make a palimony claim based upon a promise to support if the relationship went south.  While palimony law is primarily contract based, the new bill will require any such "promise to support" to be set forth in writing.  It will be interesting to see if a mere letter or email will meet this new requirement or if same will be reduced to terms similar to pre-nuptial agreements.
 

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Common Misconceptions of Divorce Law

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In this installment of Legal Lines, Stark & Stark Divorce attorneys, David Beaver and Megan Smith, devote the episode to tackling some common misconceptions of divorce litigation.  If you are involved in divorce litigation, this is a “must see” episode, as many of the myths surrounding New Family law are debunked. Some of the topics covered in this episode include:

  • Alimony – Discussion of tax-related issues
  • Emancipation of children
  • True effect of marital fault in a NJ divorce proceeding
  • Inherited funds – Subject to distribution?

If you have any additional questions, feel free to contact the Stark & Stark Divorce Group at 1-877-678-Divorce.

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Navigating Custody Issues

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In this installment of Legal Lines, Stark & Stark Divorce attorney, David Beaver, addresses the challenges associated with custody issues within your divorce litigation.  Special guest, Robert Rosenbaum, Ph.D, from Bunker Hill Consultation Center, shares his insight regarding what to expect in a contested custody litigation from a forensic  psychologist’s perspective.

The episode covers topics such as:

  • Physical Custody vs. Legal Custody
  • Parent of Primary Residence Classification
  • Children’s preferences in the final custody allocation
  • Realistic expectations for a custody litigation
  • Shared Parenting Plans

If you have any additional questions, feel free to contact the Stark & Stark Divorce Group at 1-877-678-Divorce.

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Non -Domestic Violence?

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In a case of first impression in New Jersey, an appeals court affirmed a trial court's ruling that a paid escort qualifies as a "date”, and thus is a victim under the New Jersey Prevention of Domestic Violence Act. In J.S. v. J.F., the trial judge determined that the parties had entered into a "dating relationship" even though most of their "dates" were at the club where J.S. danced. As for the exchange of money involved, J.S. testified that J.F. was simply trying  to help her out financially, as opposed to rendering payment for professional services, an argument unsuccessfully advanced by J.F.'s counsel.
 

By way of background, J.S. sought protection under the Domestic Violence Act when she began "seeing another man" to which J.F. responded by sending her harassing and threatening text messages. The case serves as fair warning that the commonly-held definition of "dating" is being expanded to satisfy the presumed legislative intent of the Act. As we lawyers like to say, "please be guided accordingly". As others might put it, "buyer beware".

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Divorce In The Troubled Economy

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In this installment of Legal Lines, Stark & Stark Divorce attorney, David Beaver, discusses various issues and challenges connected to your divorce litigation in a down-turned economy. Special guest, Thomas Gates from Arlington Capital Mortgage, fields questions regarding protecting your marital residence during a divorce litigation and flexible refinance options:

  • Job Loss
  • Change of Circumstance
  • Child Support Modification
  • Alimony Recalculation
  • Tips regarding improving your credit score for a favorable refinance

If you have any additional questions, feel free to contact the Stark & Stark Divorce Group at 1-877-678-Divorce.
 

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Modification of Alimony and Child Support in a Poor Economy

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It has just been reported that the unemployment rate in New Jersey is approaching 10%, the highest it has been in decades.  It has also been reported that divorce filings are down in this period of recession, presumably because couples cannot afford to split up.  The same does not appear true, however, for modification motions.
 

At the time of a divorce, alimony and child support are based on the parties' incomes.  If there is a substantial change in circumstance after the initial support is set, such as the loss of employment due to no fault of your own (i.e., layoffs, plant and store closings, corporate bankruptcies), you may wish to file an application with the court, called a motion, to decrease your support obligations.
 

In any modification case, the burden of proof to establish a substantial change in circumstance is on the party seeking change.  It is not prudent to run into court on the heels of losing your job without having taken the steps necessary to prove your case.  A court must not only weigh the payor spouse's circumstances in deciding when, if, how much and for how long support obligations should be modified, it must also take into consideration the effect any modification will have on the payee spouse, including the children.
 

In seeking modification, the payor spouse must file a certification with the court setting forth the facts which would convince a court to modify support.  You must attach  proof to that certification which captures the time and effort you put into finding another job.  Copies of letters and resumes sent by email or snail mail to companies looking for employees is a start.  Most job seekers these days will post their resume on employment websites such as monster.com or careerbuilder.com, but this does not quantify the effort made.  Keeping a log of prospective employers who contact you with the date and synopsis of the conversation or copy of email responses is better proof.  Copies of rejection letters, if an employer bothers to send one, are also helpful.  The log should include dates and outcomes of interviews, any employment offers made, and reasons why an offer was not accepted.  Any hard evidence that would support the log is a must.
 

In addition, the supporting spouse should certify as to efforts made in reviewing local newspapers and trade or industry journals for employment opportunities.  Obtaining a headhunter and documenting all job leads, interviews and rejections is also suggested.  Many times the prior employer will offer laid off employees time with a counseling or other firm as part of their severance package.  All of this information must be pooled together, with supporting proof and made part of any certification accompanying a motion for modification.
 

In searching for employment, it may no longer be acceptable to apply for jobs only in your residential area, or only in your specific field.  If expanding your job search in these ways bears no fruit, then accepting a decrease in pay may be the only option available if you have been in the market for a period of time with no results.
 

If a party does accept a job with lesser pay after a diligent search, it will be much easier to deal with a motion for modification of support.  If the proofs are there as to the efforts made for a comparable job to your prior employment, and you have not been able to obtain comparable employment given the state of that industry, then the court will rely on the lesser income in modifying support, absent evidence undermining the payor spouse's proofs.
 

If, on the other hand, you have not made a zealous effort and have just accepted a job making lesser pay without proving your effort, then a court may not modify your support payments.
 

The New Jersey Appellate Division set forth factors which the trial court should  consider in a case dealing with a career change and lesser income.  These factors include: the reasons for the career change (both the reasons for leaving the prior job and the reasons for choosing the new job); disparity between prior and present earnings; efforts to find work at comparable pay; the extent to which the new career draws or builds upon education, skills and experience; the availability of work; the extent to which the new career offers opportunities for enhanced earnings in the future; age and health; and the former spouse's need for support.
 

As one can glean from the above suggestions, a motion to modify support based on job loss should not be filed quickly, even though you may want and need fast relief.  While courts are now considering motions to modify support based on job loss much more quickly than they have in the past, you must still present a compelling case.

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Dissipation of Marital Assets

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In New Jersey divorce cases, all property accumulated during the marriage (whether real estate, cash, bank accounts, investment accounts, retirement plans and personal property) is subject to equitable distribution.
 

But what happens if an asset is no longer in existence or spent down by the time a Divorce Complaint is filed as a result of one spouse’s spending?
 

A Court can determine whether a spouse has dissipated marital assets and therefore should have the obligation to pay that money back.  However, a careful analysis must be conducted.
 If the spending has been used to pay marital debt or to fund vacations or for some other marital purpose, the Court will not find that dissipation has occurred.  On the other hand, if a spouse sends money to his or her family over the objection of the other spouse, or if a spouse spends money frivolously for his or her own purposes while contemplating a divorce, a court may find that dissipation has occurred.
 

The following factors should be considered when deciding the issue of dissipation:
(1) the proximity of the expenditure to the parties’ separation, (2) whether the expenditure was typical of expenditures made by the parties prior to the breakdown of the marriage, (3) whether the expenditure benefitted the "joint" marital enterprise or was for the benefit of one spouse to the exclusion of the other, and (4) the need for, and amount of, the expenditure.
 

While not an easy thing to prove, dissipation of marital assets is an issue to be raised in some divorce cases.

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